The Virtues Project Facilitator Training
prerequisite: 12 hour Introduction to The Virtues Project
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Dates: 7 Wednesdays, March 5-April 16, 2025 from 5 to 7 PM Pacific time
Details at www.virtuestraining.com/virtues-project-facilitator-program.html
prerequisite: 12 hour Introduction to The Virtues Project
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Dates: 7 Wednesdays, March 5-April 16, 2025 from 5 to 7 PM Pacific time
Details at www.virtuestraining.com/virtues-project-facilitator-program.html
A Pace of Grace: Sustaining Your Peacefulness, Joy, Gratitude and Well-Being
An interactive 6 week course on Zoom. Drawing from Linda Kavelin Popov's book, A Pace of Grace, and other sources, 4 practices and 5 strategies will help you live a more peaceful and joy-filled life!
Beginning January 8, 2025. Email [email protected] for questions or information. Register below.
An interactive 6 week course on Zoom. Drawing from Linda Kavelin Popov's book, A Pace of Grace, and other sources, 4 practices and 5 strategies will help you live a more peaceful and joy-filled life!
Beginning January 8, 2025. Email [email protected] for questions or information. Register below.
FREE Pace of Grace one hour workshop
All are welcome!
Choose the best date for you:
Wednesday, Dec. 4, 5-6 PM Pacific time
Or
Thursday, Dec. 5, 9-10 AM Pacific time (find your time at www.timeanddate.com/)
Email [email protected] with GRACE in subject line, and your name and email address and date you choose
to receive the Zoom link.
BUILDING BLOCKS FOR LASTING LOVE
SILVER PACKAGE
YES, REGISTER US FOR THE EARLY BIRD SPECIAL AT $297 NOW!
$100 SAVINGS
REGULAR PRICE AFTER SEPTEMBER 30: $397
SILVER PACKAGE
- 8 recorded sessions with Pete and Betsy
- All handouts & support docs
- Keeping the Flame Alive Tips for a happy, healthy relationship
- Interactive exercises for you as a couple
- Q & A with the Facilitators
- Installment payments available
- Your privacy respected.
YES, REGISTER US FOR THE EARLY BIRD SPECIAL AT $297 NOW!
$100 SAVINGS
REGULAR PRICE AFTER SEPTEMBER 30: $397
BUILDING BLOCKS FOR LASTING LOVE
PREMIUM PACKAGE
$100 SAVINGS
REGULAR PRICE AFTER SEPTEMBER 30: $497
PREMIUM PACKAGE
- Special One Hour Mentoring call with Pete & Betsy
- 8 recorded sessions with Pete and Betsy
- All handouts & support docs
- Keeping the Flame Alive Tips for a happy, healthy relationship
- Interactive exercises for you as a couple
- Q & A with the Facilitators
- Installment payments available
- Your privacy respected.
$100 SAVINGS
REGULAR PRICE AFTER SEPTEMBER 30: $497
What couples are saying:
After 39 years of marriage and several marriage encounters, this is the best marriage retreat we've ever been on!"
-J & R, Issaquah, WA
"I appreciated new ways of communicating with my spouse in a non-threatening position and acknowledgement of the virtues and strengthening relationship tools with more effective, loving techniques." -B.B., Seattle, WA
The content was rich in engaging activities and virtues. We had the chance to meet with other couples who had the role of strengthening our experience and being of great support and enlightenment to a better practice in our relationship." - F & R, Amman, Jordan
"We know this strategy of Companioning quite well, and have used it for years. Not only has it been a HUGE support for the raising of our daughters, for the past 25 years, but is also a key pillar in the strength of our marriage. To feel heard, seen and held in supportive arms of love and acceptance is a phenomenal gift."- Cynthia & Steven Wand, Salt Lake City, UT
"I really appreciated Pete and Betsy' kindness, care and respect for us in every aspect of this marriage retreat."
-K.A.- Camano Island, WA
My husband and I both enjoyed meeting others from around the US and globe who had completed the same meaningful assignments provoking laughter, gratitude and that highlighted areas for common and individual growth intellectually, spiritually and emotionally. The fact that it was taught by both a husband and wife encouraged myself and my husband to trust the process. Our trust was never threatened and has inspired my spouse and self to learn communication skills we now cherish. -M & J, Poulsbo, WA
"Thank you Betsy and Pete, for helping us grow closer together." -M & R, Seattle, WA
After 39 years of marriage and several marriage encounters, this is the best marriage retreat we've ever been on!"
-J & R, Issaquah, WA
"I appreciated new ways of communicating with my spouse in a non-threatening position and acknowledgement of the virtues and strengthening relationship tools with more effective, loving techniques." -B.B., Seattle, WA
The content was rich in engaging activities and virtues. We had the chance to meet with other couples who had the role of strengthening our experience and being of great support and enlightenment to a better practice in our relationship." - F & R, Amman, Jordan
"We know this strategy of Companioning quite well, and have used it for years. Not only has it been a HUGE support for the raising of our daughters, for the past 25 years, but is also a key pillar in the strength of our marriage. To feel heard, seen and held in supportive arms of love and acceptance is a phenomenal gift."- Cynthia & Steven Wand, Salt Lake City, UT
"I really appreciated Pete and Betsy' kindness, care and respect for us in every aspect of this marriage retreat."
-K.A.- Camano Island, WA
My husband and I both enjoyed meeting others from around the US and globe who had completed the same meaningful assignments provoking laughter, gratitude and that highlighted areas for common and individual growth intellectually, spiritually and emotionally. The fact that it was taught by both a husband and wife encouraged myself and my husband to trust the process. Our trust was never threatened and has inspired my spouse and self to learn communication skills we now cherish. -M & J, Poulsbo, WA
"Thank you Betsy and Pete, for helping us grow closer together." -M & R, Seattle, WA

So glad you're here!
We can't wait to work with you!
We know marriage isn't easy. Everyone has struggles and tests. We've had our
share too. Fortunately, we learned about The Virtues Project™ thirty years ago, so we've had some great tools to help us weather the storms.
We're celebrating our 50th wedding anniversary by sharing practical strategies and practices with you, that have helped us communicate positively, honestly and clearly, listen deeply to each other, and strengthen our love, honesty, and care for each other through the years.
Our goal is to help you and your partner have more joy, intimacy and vibrancy in your relationship. We'll see you on July 25th to get started!
With love and gratitude,
Betsy & Pete
We can't wait to work with you!
We know marriage isn't easy. Everyone has struggles and tests. We've had our
share too. Fortunately, we learned about The Virtues Project™ thirty years ago, so we've had some great tools to help us weather the storms.
We're celebrating our 50th wedding anniversary by sharing practical strategies and practices with you, that have helped us communicate positively, honestly and clearly, listen deeply to each other, and strengthen our love, honesty, and care for each other through the years.
Our goal is to help you and your partner have more joy, intimacy and vibrancy in your relationship. We'll see you on July 25th to get started!
With love and gratitude,
Betsy & Pete
QUESTIONS? EMAIL [email protected]
REGISTER BY JULY 6TH AND RECEIVE A BONUS OF THIS 40 DAY JOURNAL, VALUE OF $29.95!
The Virtues Project™ Facilitator Worldwide Webinar
(prerequisite is 12 hour course, Introduction to The Virtues Project, or equivalent)
Join amazing people from around the world to become a Virtues Project Facilitator!
Virtues Project Facilitators may take this course as a refresher at a discounted price.
Dates: 7 Thursdays, April 9 - May 21, 5 PM to 7 PM U.S. Pacific time (same as Seattle, WA)
(Friday morning in Asia, Australia, NZ)
Check your time at https://www.timeanddate.com/
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Details and registration: https://www.virtuestraining.com/facilitator-webinar.html
(prerequisite is 12 hour course, Introduction to The Virtues Project, or equivalent)
Join amazing people from around the world to become a Virtues Project Facilitator!
Virtues Project Facilitators may take this course as a refresher at a discounted price.
Dates: 7 Thursdays, April 9 - May 21, 5 PM to 7 PM U.S. Pacific time (same as Seattle, WA)
(Friday morning in Asia, Australia, NZ)
Check your time at https://www.timeanddate.com/
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Details and registration: https://www.virtuestraining.com/facilitator-webinar.html
The accompanying handout gives you more information and a summary of these helpful strategies.
We'd love to hear from you after you've tried out these practices! Send us an email at [email protected]
We'd love to hear from you after you've tried out these practices! Send us an email at [email protected]
- 6-two hour sessions via Zoom
- Handouts and support docs
- Interactive exercises for couple
- Your privacy respected
- Support from other participants
- Keeping the Flame Alive tips for couples
- Q & A with the Facilitators
Building Blocks for Lasting Love
Early Bird Special
(Regular price $347)
Installment options available!
$297
Early Bird Special
(Regular price $347)
Installment options available!
$297
- PREMIUM: ONE HOUR MENTORING CALL WITH BETSY & PETE
- 6-two hour sessions via Zoom
- Handouts and support docs
- Interactive exercises for couple
- Your privacy respected
- Support from other participants
- Keeping the Flame Alive tips for couples
- Q & A with the Facilitators
Building Blocks for Lasting Love- Premium
Plus One-time special Mentoring Call with Pete & Betsy
Installment options available
$397
Plus One-time special Mentoring Call with Pete & Betsy
Installment options available
$397
Mentoring for Virtues Project Facilitators & Master Facilitators: Deepening Your Practice
Dates: 5 Mondays, every other week from 5 PM to 7 PM Pacific time (same as Seattle, WA).
April 6-June 1, 2020 (Tuesday morning in Asia, Australia, NZ)
Location: On your computer, phone or tablet via Zoom. It's easy to use!
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Register today!
Details & Registration
Dates: 5 Mondays, every other week from 5 PM to 7 PM Pacific time (same as Seattle, WA).
April 6-June 1, 2020 (Tuesday morning in Asia, Australia, NZ)
- Sharpen your skills
- Build connections & community
- Be mentored and mentor others
Location: On your computer, phone or tablet via Zoom. It's easy to use!
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Register today!
Details & Registration
Prime Time: Living a More Joy-filled Life
Come join Betsy Lydle Smith for five sessions of inspiration and practical strategies for living a joy-filled life. You’ll learn about the international, multi-cultural Virtues Project™, being used in more than 120 countries and honored by the United Nations as a model program for people of all cultures. Explore virtues such as love, caring, honesty, integrity, joy and peacefulness. Learn five strategies guaranteed to improve communication with family members, friends, and strangers, honor your spirit, set clear boundaries and discern what’s really important to you at this stage of your life.
Where: Bainbridge Island, WA at Waterfront Park Sr. Center
When: 5 Thursdays, Sept. 26-October 24, from 10 AM to noon
Free
For information and registration, contact [email protected]
Where: Bainbridge Island, WA at Waterfront Park Sr. Center
When: 5 Thursdays, Sept. 26-October 24, from 10 AM to noon
Free
For information and registration, contact [email protected]
Betsy’s work focuses on creating a culture of character in schools, families, and for individuals interested in purposeful personal growth. She also facilitates webinars and online courses in The Virtues Project strategies.
Betsy is a wife, mother of two grown daughters and a grandmother. She has a gift of making workshops understandable, usable, personally enriching, and fun. Her style of training facilitates self-discovery and helps people move beyond their current levels of performance to new more effective communication, teamwork, and positive approaches.
Betsy is a wife, mother of two grown daughters and a grandmother. She has a gift of making workshops understandable, usable, personally enriching, and fun. Her style of training facilitates self-discovery and helps people move beyond their current levels of performance to new more effective communication, teamwork, and positive approaches.

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A worldwide live webinar series to deepen your practice, with mentoring & support, sharpening your skills and connection and community.
Dates: Every other week. Begins June 11.
6 Tuesdays from 5 PM to 7 PM Pacific time. Every other week.
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Dates: Every other week. Begins June 11.
6 Tuesdays from 5 PM to 7 PM Pacific time. Every other week.
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
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Virtues Summer Institute 2019
Awakening the Gifts of Character: Introduction to The Virtues Project™
Dates: July 8 & 9, 2019
Time: 9 AM to 5 PM daily
Location: Seattle, WA
Master Facilitators: Betsy Lydle Smith & Natasha Nimmo
Tuition: $295 if 2 or more register together; includes materials, refreshments
$350 for individual only - contact [email protected] for invoice or P.O.)
12 clock hours for teachers
More information: Virtues Summer Institute 2019
The Virtues Project™ Facilitator Program
(prerequisite: 12 hour Introduction to The Virtues Project)
Dates: July 10, 11, 12, 2019
Time: 9 AM to 5 PM daily
Location: Seattle, WA
Master Facilitators: Betsy Lydle Smith & Natasha Nimmo
Tuition: $595 for 2 or more registered together, includes Leader's Manual ($75 value), materials, refreshments
$650 for individual. contact [email protected] for invoice or P.O.)
18 clock hours/CEU's
More information: https://www.virtuestraining.com/become-a-facilitator.html
Special rates if you register for all five days. See link above.
Before you make non-refundable plane reservations, please contact us to make sure our minimum enrollment has been met. Email [email protected] or call 425-753-6498.
Virtues Summer Institute 2019
Awakening the Gifts of Character: Introduction to The Virtues Project™
Dates: July 8 & 9, 2019
Time: 9 AM to 5 PM daily
Location: Seattle, WA
Master Facilitators: Betsy Lydle Smith & Natasha Nimmo
Tuition: $295 if 2 or more register together; includes materials, refreshments
$350 for individual only - contact [email protected] for invoice or P.O.)
12 clock hours for teachers
More information: Virtues Summer Institute 2019
The Virtues Project™ Facilitator Program
(prerequisite: 12 hour Introduction to The Virtues Project)
Dates: July 10, 11, 12, 2019
Time: 9 AM to 5 PM daily
Location: Seattle, WA
Master Facilitators: Betsy Lydle Smith & Natasha Nimmo
Tuition: $595 for 2 or more registered together, includes Leader's Manual ($75 value), materials, refreshments
$650 for individual. contact [email protected] for invoice or P.O.)
18 clock hours/CEU's
More information: https://www.virtuestraining.com/become-a-facilitator.html
Special rates if you register for all five days. See link above.
Before you make non-refundable plane reservations, please contact us to make sure our minimum enrollment has been met. Email [email protected] or call 425-753-6498.
We believe the "A Pace of Grace" workshop (Feb. 26-April 9) will be so life-changing that we want you to experience a taste of it for FREE. Sign up below to download your FREE webinar!
"A Pace of Grace" Free Webinar
The Art of Companioning: Deepening Your Practice
(prerequisite: Some knowledge of The Art of Companioning)
A live webinar joining people from around the world to interact, practice together, and learn from a mentor and each other.
Dates: Mondays, March 25- April 15, from 5 PM to 7 PM Pacific time.
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
This will be a small group. REGISTER NOW!
(prerequisite: Some knowledge of The Art of Companioning)
A live webinar joining people from around the world to interact, practice together, and learn from a mentor and each other.
Dates: Mondays, March 25- April 15, from 5 PM to 7 PM Pacific time.
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
This will be a small group. REGISTER NOW!
Parenting the 21st Century Child: Building Strong Families
Our schools and our culture are providing much emphasis on children developing technical/scientific prowess and critical thinking. This program identifies research-based parenting techniques that develop the whole child. The Virtues Project™ focuses on the essential character skills and qualities that are needed to be successful in the world. Participants will learn five practical, positive, effective strategies for bringing out the best in every child at every age. For parents, grandparents, caregivers.
Location: Bainbridge Island, WA, Bainbridge Island Rec. and Parks
Dates: 5 Thursdays, 4/25/19 - 4/11/19
Time: 10 AM to 12 noon
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Details at For Parents
Fee: $55
Our schools and our culture are providing much emphasis on children developing technical/scientific prowess and critical thinking. This program identifies research-based parenting techniques that develop the whole child. The Virtues Project™ focuses on the essential character skills and qualities that are needed to be successful in the world. Participants will learn five practical, positive, effective strategies for bringing out the best in every child at every age. For parents, grandparents, caregivers.
Location: Bainbridge Island, WA, Bainbridge Island Rec. and Parks
Dates: 5 Thursdays, 4/25/19 - 4/11/19
Time: 10 AM to 12 noon
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Details at For Parents
Fee: $55
Parenting the 21st Century Child
Our schools and our culture are providing much emphasis on children developing technical/scientific prowess and critical thinking. This program identifies research-based parenting techniques that develop the whole child. The Virtues Project™ focuses on the essential character skills and qualities that are needed to be successful in the world. Participants will learn five practical, positive, effective strategies for bringing out the best in every child at every age. For parents, grandparents, caregivers.
Location: Bainbridge Island, WA, Bainbridge Island Rec. and Parks
Dates: 5 Wednesdays, 3/6/19 - 4/4/19
Time: 10 AM to 12 noon
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Details at For Parents
Fee: $55
The Holidays: from Stressful to Graceful, Episode 2
Listen to The Holidays: from Stressful to Graceful, Episodes 1 & 2, podcasts here. Click the links below for the podcast recordings. The first 3 handouts go along with Episode 1.
Print out the handouts, sit down with a cup of tea, listen, and reflect on the virtues and practices that will help you create a joyful, peaceful holiday season for yourself and your family.
You'll find Episode 2 here below also. The handout called, Setting Clear Boundaries-Holidays, is available below. Print it out and use it while listening to Episode 2. The handouts Featured Virtues and 100 Virtues Handouts are also used in this podcast.
Enjoy!
Print out the handouts, sit down with a cup of tea, listen, and reflect on the virtues and practices that will help you create a joyful, peaceful holiday season for yourself and your family.
You'll find Episode 2 here below also. The handout called, Setting Clear Boundaries-Holidays, is available below. Print it out and use it while listening to Episode 2. The handouts Featured Virtues and 100 Virtues Handouts are also used in this podcast.
Enjoy!

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Location: Bainbridge Island, WA (near Seattle)
Dates: Thursday, July 19 with optional day of Friday, July 20.
You can register for one day only (July 19), or both days
Time: 9:45 AM to 5:30 PM
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Investment: $250 for July 19 only; $375 for July 19 & 20
You may sign up for one day only or for two days. Day two will be more in-depth, allowing you to be more rejuvenated and relaxed with a more detailed plan for the life you want to live!
for more information and to REGISTER go www.virtuestraining.com/pace-of-grace.html
If you've never attended a women's retreat or taken a personal retreat day, you're in for a treat! You'll leave feeling refreshed and rejuvenated, make some heart connections, and take away strategies to create a more joyful, peaceful, meaningful everyday life!
DON'T MISS IT!
Before you make non-refundable plane reservations, please contact us to make sure our minimum enrollment has been met. Email [email protected] or call 425-753-6498.
Dates: Thursday, July 19 with optional day of Friday, July 20.
You can register for one day only (July 19), or both days
Time: 9:45 AM to 5:30 PM
Master Facilitator: Betsy Lydle Smith
Investment: $250 for July 19 only; $375 for July 19 & 20
You may sign up for one day only or for two days. Day two will be more in-depth, allowing you to be more rejuvenated and relaxed with a more detailed plan for the life you want to live!
for more information and to REGISTER go www.virtuestraining.com/pace-of-grace.html
If you've never attended a women's retreat or taken a personal retreat day, you're in for a treat! You'll leave feeling refreshed and rejuvenated, make some heart connections, and take away strategies to create a more joyful, peaceful, meaningful everyday life!
DON'T MISS IT!
Before you make non-refundable plane reservations, please contact us to make sure our minimum enrollment has been met. Email [email protected] or call 425-753-6498.
The Virtues Project™ Facilitator Program Webinar
(prerequisite is 12 hour Introduction to The Virtues Project or equivalent)
A Pace of Grace One Day Island Retreat
Raising Courageous, Honest and Caring Kids
5 Strategies to bring out the best in every child & adult!
Date: Saturday, April 29 from 9:45 AM to 4 PM
Location: Bainbridge Island, WA at Rolling Bay Presbyterian Church
Fee: $60 before April 21, $75 after April 21
(lunch is included)
Questions? Email [email protected] or call 425-753-6498
Register now!
A Pace of Grace
Worldwide Webinar
"Betsy Lydle Smith has been on my Virtues Project radar for two decades. Years ago she traveled to Vancouver, Washington, to give a basic Virtues workshop. This was my introduction and a beginning love for this work. Currently, we share beautiful Bainbridge Island, a ferry ride from Seattle. Being on the same patch of land, I get to have the bounty of witnessing first hand and often, her natural gifts of going deep into her personal well of insight and offering out the qualities of patience and listening and perceiving. These qualities build for me a place of trust and safety and honesty, the attributes of true friendship."
~ stefani galaday, Bainbridge Island, WA
The Pace of Grace was a wonderful class that provided structure, tools, a safe environment and fun exercises to look at deep-seeded habits and bring more consciousness to how I am living my life. Betsy also gave wonderful practices that I am incorporating into my life and it really is making a difference. I'm finding it has reduced my stress level, I'm feeling happier and it is so much fun to have my mind chatter be virtues rather than complaints! I highly recommend it. Thank you Betsy!
– Heide Madden, Bainbridge Island, WA
Betsy personifies the Pace of Grace. In her transforming workshop, she introduces the universal virtues of all cultures and five simple strategies to achieve grace in one's life. I am learning to move into a more intentional grace-filled life of forgiveness, purpose, creativity, and joyfulness. This workshop was the best gift I have given myself!
- Catherine McCallum Hayner, Bainbridge Island, WA
Joining the Pace of Grace webinar was one of my best decisions recently. For years I was too busy and focused on only one thing at a time mostly neglecting my health. At a time when I could no longer ignore my pain I needed a way to balance work health and play. The Pace of Grace gave me a new perspective of life. I feel like I'm one step closer to discovering the meaning of my being. After having a deep look into myself, I realized that the choices are mine and that I am capable of living a sustainable life.
-Morae Kim, Korea
~ stefani galaday, Bainbridge Island, WA
The Pace of Grace was a wonderful class that provided structure, tools, a safe environment and fun exercises to look at deep-seeded habits and bring more consciousness to how I am living my life. Betsy also gave wonderful practices that I am incorporating into my life and it really is making a difference. I'm finding it has reduced my stress level, I'm feeling happier and it is so much fun to have my mind chatter be virtues rather than complaints! I highly recommend it. Thank you Betsy!
– Heide Madden, Bainbridge Island, WA
Betsy personifies the Pace of Grace. In her transforming workshop, she introduces the universal virtues of all cultures and five simple strategies to achieve grace in one's life. I am learning to move into a more intentional grace-filled life of forgiveness, purpose, creativity, and joyfulness. This workshop was the best gift I have given myself!
- Catherine McCallum Hayner, Bainbridge Island, WA
Joining the Pace of Grace webinar was one of my best decisions recently. For years I was too busy and focused on only one thing at a time mostly neglecting my health. At a time when I could no longer ignore my pain I needed a way to balance work health and play. The Pace of Grace gave me a new perspective of life. I feel like I'm one step closer to discovering the meaning of my being. After having a deep look into myself, I realized that the choices are mine and that I am capable of living a sustainable life.
-Morae Kim, Korea